“This work is a love letter to the queer nights that held me. Under the strobes and amongst the sweat, we found each other. We made ourselves visible, irrepressible, undeniable.”

- Bex Wade

SLQS Gallery presents I Know Who I Am By Being With You, an exhibition of early works by trans non-binary photographer Bex Wade, which captures New York’s queer nightlife in the early 2010s, and marks Wade’s first solo show. 
 
I Know Who I Am By Being With You is a meditation on performance as an art form and as a survival strategy. The nightclub becomes a stage where identity is not just expressed but constructed, negotiated and reimagined with every movement. Wade’s lens captures this ritual of queer becoming, the way bodies transform under the lights, the defiant theatrics of self-presentation, the silent exchanges that signal belonging. These moments are ephemeral, yet their impact lingers, shaping what it means to be seen.
 
Wade’s documentation of spaces of queer gathering archive moments where LGBTQIA+ people come together to celebrate, resist and redefine belonging. For Wade, “these images are an offering - to remember, to reclaim, and to carry forward the legacy of our collective becoming.”
 
Private View: 24 April 2025 6:30-8:30pm
On view 25 April - 17 May 2025
20 Club Row, London, E2 7EY
 
 

 

Bex Wade (they/them) is a UK-based trans non-binary artist and photographer. Wade documents queer lives with a focus on power, complexity and defiance, capturing moments of joy, rage, communion and resistance. Their practice builds an archive of contemporary queer experience that insists on visibility, survival and self-determination.

 

Wade's work seeks to challenge dominant narratives of gender and identity, explicitly highlighting how queer people reshape their worlds. Their images resist the assumptions of cis-heteronormativity, offering a vision of multiplicity, kinship and refusal. Their current focus is documenting overlooked queer narratives, centering trans lives and communities who are marginalised within LGBTQIA+ spaces. 

 

Wade is the first trans artist to be displayed permanently by the Victoria & Albert Museum, after five of Wade’s photographs were acquired by the V&A in 2023.

 

Wade's photography has been featured in Dazed & ConfusedHuckVICEBritish VogueBBCThe New York Times and The Observer. Their work also appears in recent publications; Calling the Shots: A Queer History of Photography by Zorian Clayton (Thames & Hudson / V&A, 2024) and Queer Art: From Canvas to Club, and the Spaces Between by Gemma Rolls-Bentley (Frances London, 2024). 

 

Previous group exhibitions include: Design Gives Us a Voice, Young Victoria & Albert Museum, London (2023); Grown Up in Britain: 100 Years of Teenage Kicks, MOYC, Herbert Art Gallery & Museum, Coventry (2023); Reframe the Movement, Shambala Festival (2023); Photographing Protest: Resistance through a Feminist Lens, Four Corners, London (2022); Protest to Progress, POW Thanet, Margate (2021); Why We Shout: Art and Protest, VOMA (2021); Art & Protest, GIANT, Bournemouth (2021); NY Nights, Margate Arts Club, Margate (2021); THERE CAN BE NO LOVE WITHOUT JUSTICE, QueerCircle & Buildhollywood, Billboards across the UK (2021); GIRL TOWN, Photomonth East London International Photo Fest, London (2016); Perform, View Art Gallery, Bristol (2009).

 


 

The exhibition was created with the support of art consultant Anna Smithson.